Tag: life

Former Stepford Wife to Homeless Light to Now

Happy Tuesday! Yup. Round Two for Today. And it's my normal posting day... I can boil down why my marriage didn't work into a single sentence: Disconnect over long term goals for life and factors beyond our control that had massive impact on our lives... Fresh love doesn't always take this into consideration when you … Continue reading Former Stepford Wife to Homeless Light to Now →

Inspiration Porn

Good morning! Stella Young invented that incredible accurate phrase to talk about the bulk of movies featuring some sort of "great act" performed of disability or someone viewed "deficient" by the arbitrary standard of "normal." EXCEPT the "great act" is shit like going to the grocery store. Oh, gee! How brave,. That's complete bullshit. Yes, … Continue reading Inspiration Porn →

Performing Monkey?

So typical of myself: I decide I'm done with a topic? The real insights hit me like a shit ton of bricks. A common narrative? I've got piles of trauma. This must mean that I'm deep and special. Countless movies are built around this narrative. Me? I bought it hook, line, and sinker. Cuz I … Continue reading Performing Monkey? →

Rethinking Toxicity: New Model Patterns

Good morning! Dudes! I'm ready to go more in-depth about why I blew up my putting together websites to date. If you haven't grabbed coffee yet, why not? Notice this subtle manipulation? I've been spinning for about a week while I've made sense of all my brain is downloading... I repeated Layla Martin's sex magic … Continue reading Rethinking Toxicity: New Model Patterns →