Heeeeelllllllllllllllooooo!

I got that print of the Cheshire Cat in Vegas several years ago. If you’re not familiar with him, he’s a fun character in the Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland story by Lewis Carroll. As an aside, it was in reading his “The Walrus and Carpenter” poem among others that inspired me to write poems. Something magic about it.

And what does this have to do with mindset?

Everthing.

Cuz EVERYTHING IS MINDSET.

See… I once heard that the most powerful coaches work with mindset rather than offer up tips and tricks. Why? Your thoughts can be your biggest obstacle or your biggest ally. You absolutely get to choose however you shape your thoughts.

BUT BUT BUT

My thoughts will do whatever they want!?! I have no control over them!?!

EXCEPT

Thoughts are like everything else: whatever you feed will grow. Dudes!?! I can attest. Honest. How so? If you look at my earliest blogs, you’ll see that I recounted a loooooooooooooooooooooooooong ass history of trauma along with the consistent note: THERE’S MORE.

And since that was my focus? It was easy for me to collect traumas in the way some people collect baseball cards. Harsh assessment of myself for sure. So what? Cuz if I can’t be honest with myself about myself? How can I grow in a sustainable way? Sure. It’s not pretty. Some would say that I’m making it even harder on myself with this process being in such a public space. After all – people interpret what I say. This could easily get things twisted around since it’s hard to go into every nuance when discussing things..

So what?

My focus is on growth rather than perfection. That shift in my mindset changed everything for me. I’m able to complete more things and stop being so fucking precious with everything. Much more to follow soon. Very fabulous!!

As always: Have a glamorous day for fun!!

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