Hello all!

If you read the comments my blog here, you’ll see that my mom Shari Nault does an excellent job of affirming or challenging my posts depending on her take on them.

And yesterday when I talked about calling genital cupping “naughty” in my blog post? She pointed out that I’ve been talking about the therapeutic value over both.

Well?

It’s has therapeutic value along with being “naughty.”

EXCEPT that “naughty” part?

Not what you think…

Society deems you naughty if you’re in charge of your sexuality instead of default to what society believes should be your sexuality.

Like if you think for yourself instead of let society think for you?? Dude. They claim that’s the problem.

An example in my life? I look like the fetishized trope of blonde hair, blue eyes, and curvy? So I did what any reasonable self-respecting human would… I developed my brain over the years instead of just my tits. It was a not so subtle middle finger to being typecast as fodder for pin up calendars.

And now that I’m more settled into life beyond being Barbie? I’m having fun with both… Cuz me now leaning into my own sexuality instead of outsourcing it to society???

Very naughty.

Why?

You can’t be controlled or sooooooo easily gaslight if you’re grounded in yourself. Not just grounded in your brain… Your whole person.

So?

Go on!

Be naughty!!

Do the power move of owning your own sexuality no matter your age or physical appearance or age or any other factor that society has declared that their meanings must be outsourced to society.

In a word?????

Bullshit.

As always: Have a glamorous day for fun!!

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