Living by a Code

Hellllllooo! I don't know if you can see my T-shirt - It's my favorite the Punisher T-shirt. I've worn it consistently since I left my marriage. I also have my "B" for bitch necklace on too. Why and what the hell does that have to do with "living with a code?" Simple The Punisher has … Continue reading Living by a Code →

Removing the Stick from my Ass

Hello all! I got a late start on my posting today... Cuz see the gorgeous background? I'm going to Two Moon Park a lot while no snow is on the ground. I was disappointed to not run into any bobcats when I went last night. I digress... EXCEPT Yes. Mom. I swore in my title … Continue reading Removing the Stick from my Ass →

“In a Relationship???”

Hello all! Yes. Maybe. And Maybe Yes. Absolutely for sure? FOR SURE? We are all in a relationship together in some capacity. Some may have more layers, meanings, and history EXCFEPT??? We are all connected in some capacity. Like have you ever stopped to consider that... We all breathe the same air? I know folks … Continue reading “In a Relationship???” →

Trauma meets Shame and Sexuality

Hello! I've started to study Alison Armstrong to better understand how men operate. A thing that she talks about is the idea of ethics - people struggle with them when they have them. People without them don't give a shit. This is also true about things like shame. And since a lot of my trauma … Continue reading Trauma meets Shame and Sexuality →